Really, Men are &#!

What2Say2Day? I want to admit, here and now, what the absolute truth about men is. We don't get it. There's something missing from our thinking process that, for some unknown reason, prevents us from completely understanding what women really want. Please don't misunderstand me, I'm not saying men are idiots, we just don't get it - not right away, anyway.

Along with that admission I want to also proclaim that women are the more patient, understanding, and tolerant of the human species. They somehow understand we don't get it and try their best to teach us. If a man is lucky enough he will be blessed with a woman who'll stick around long enough so that in their later years he'll one day understand.

Okay. For those of you who think I'm in trouble, I'm not. My wife has invested 16 years in my training and I get it. This post is for those couples out there who may be in a time of "re-evaluating" their relationship. So, women please know with absolute understanding that a man in love will not make decisions which will purposefully hurt you in any way. Most decisions made by men are done so as not to bring you any hurt; even those decisions which seem to look like they are "hiding" something.

And men, please understand that what a woman wants more than anything is never to be lied to. The traits women look for in a relationship most are acceptance of them for the person they are, honesty, and companionship. Seems fair enough, right.

For you women out there, men just need to be boys sometimes, let them have this once in a while and know in your heart it's you he loves. Believe in the relationship and understand he loves you. Yes, there will be times you want to choke his neck, but the silent treatment works just as good.

For the both of you I say this; support each other, grow with one another, and help the other reach their dreams while keeping yourselves grounded. Do everything you can to stay together, even if it means going through the pain of deep-seeded emotions.

Like Jesus says in John 15:12-13, "This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends." Be friends first - maybe you can be each other's best friends...hmmmm.